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Mastery...

 

"Mastery requires the Need to be Present.  The Need to Win Drains You of All Power." by Eckhart Tolle

I hear these words while listening to a conversation between Oprah Winfrey & Eckhart Tolle on the web about his new book "A New Earth." I think that the tension between those two statements is an ongoing life challenge.  To Master anything takes hard work... a lot of hard work.  Yet, the drive to do so must come from a place which is beyond the lower level machination of competitive energy if it is to accomplish true Mastery.  A difficult balancing act indeed.  

The Art of Being...One of the most profound aspects of work for me has been the ongoing cultivation of my craft to share insights with others through various dimensions of teaching which include my blogging. When this activity comes from the 'zone," it is truly a gift.  It is effort without extra weight.  No longer is communication about finding the right words, but rather inolves receiving the right words... and being a vessel that can conveys them with integrity. 

Mastery is not a destination per se...it's the experience of heightened engagement.  It's not about arriving...it's about being fully present.  Mastery also absorbs replenishment without the distortion of ego centered behavior.  It sheds the short term unsustainable distraction of event based euphoria and replaces it with the lasting joy of inner satisfaction and contentment...It realises just how poor we have become in misunderstanding the difference.

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Lola Audu, CRS, GRI e-Pro ~ Audu Real Estate

Lola Audu, is the Designated Broker & Owner of Audu Real Estate.  Our company specializes in helping people buy and sell homes in the greater Grand Rapids, West Michigan area.  We've had the privilege of helping hundreds of clients succeed in their goals of purchasing and selling property including demonstrated success in the negotiation of Short Sale Transactions. You can contact us via e-mail @ info@auduhomes.com or by phone at 616-791-0511. 

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Comments

I think that is so true.  I like how you put it into words...you are in the 'zone'.
Posted by Chuck Carstensen (Re/max Associates Plus/The Discovery Coach) over 2 years ago
OK, so maybe it was a mistake to blow off those Monday evening sessions with Oprah.  You are in a very profound place.  Nice post.
Posted by Barbara Asbury (Prudential Colorado Real Estate) over 2 years ago
Hey Lola, your post are always a delight to read. Always insightful. You can't master much without being present for it. Thanks!
Posted by Eugene Jones (Weichert Realtors) over 2 years ago

Aloha Lola,

Master Eckhart is an amazing spritual teacher and his teachings have helped millions of people around the world. I'm so very please that Oprah has helped reveal his message to millions more. His book the Power of Now is a must read. Thanks for sharing your experience and wisdom.

Peace,

Posted by Kimo Stowell - Real Estate Merchandiser (JDS Consulting: Hawaii Home Staging and Decor Design) over 2 years ago
I'm probably going to have to read this a few times. It's deep and I'm tired. But just the first 2 statements make a lot of sense.
Posted by Lisa Hill (Daytona Beach Real Estate) (Florida Property Experts) over 2 years ago

Quite a few profound statements...but two that hit me:

  • No longer is communication about finding the right words, but rather inolves receiving the right words....being a vessel that can convey them with integrity
  • Mastery also absorbs replenishment without the distortion of ego centered behavior.

Ah...but the ego that wants instant gratification from outside sources......rather than the satisfaction of success that derives from.....within.

 

Lovely Lola....I admire you and your MANY styles of writing...you are truly a .....wonderful writer (blogger)

 

 

Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman HAWAII Relocations & Real Estate (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 2 years ago

Lola,

I already think too much as it is...your posts are too provoking...I mean that in a good sense...what you refer to as 'zone' I refer to as 'heart'...and no matter how many worlds and personal goals I achieve or conquer, I will still remain under the Lordship and Kingship of my Creator!!! Thanks,   Fran

Posted by Fran 'The Title Man' Gaspari Title Insurance-PA & NJ (Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.) over 2 years ago

Expertly and beautifully put. Mastery is a very Zen experience; effortless when it is present.

Posted by Rosario Lewis, GRI ~ DDR Realty, Orange County, NY (DDR Realty) over 2 years ago
Wow...pretty intense stuff....Good information
Posted by DOUG FRITCHIE-Silver Legacy Properties,Inc. over 2 years ago
Eckhart Tolle ROCKS!!!! I love his books!
Posted by Bill's Blog - Florida Realty Professional - AHWD (Charles Rutenberg Realty) over 2 years ago
Lola- Well it is after midnight to me, and this is pretty deep stuff.....I swear you are like the Kahil Gabrahn of Active Rain....deep and philosophical.  I am quite sure this makes sense.....but right now, I just know that this is about working hard to learn your craft well :)  that's what I got out of it....
Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) over 2 years ago
Lola -- it is so true.  It is being true to yourself.  I love what I do and it is because, it is from the heart.  Often, my colleagues don't understand how I can stand to work with buyers only because "they are a lot of work"  ~  I enjoy helping them find their way home.
Posted by Joan Whitebook, ABR,e-Pro,CEBA Southern New Hampshire (Buyer's Option Realty Services) over 2 years ago
Thanks Lola, Very Masterful Post, The CRC are Going to kick you out of GRR... They kicked me out years ago. (just kidding) When I lived there I went to Fountain Street
Posted by Jane Wallace CRS, Denver Real Estate (Distinctive Properties, LTD) over 2 years ago

 

How profound is this statement..." Mastery also absorbs replenishment without the distortion of ego centered behavior.  It sheds the short term unsustainable distraction of event based euphoria and replaces it with the lasting joy of inner satisfaction and contentment"  I love this statement, it'soo true. I started the Ophra-Eckhart  webinar...but i got behind. I must catch up this is great stuff!!  

Posted by Vanessa West over 2 years ago
Thank you all for your contributions and comments.  It has been an incredibly busy period, but I have stopped in from time to time to read what you're writing in response to this post.  I'll be responding individually too.  Blessings.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Hi Chuck, Thanks for stopping by to share a comment.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Barbara, Thanks for the comment.  I think "where" I am is more reflective of a devotional life, however, I have enjoyed listening to the discussion.  Eckhart Tolle has some profound insights which I have found helpful.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Absolutely Eugene!
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Kimo...Thanks for your comment.  The concepts he is talking about are important for many of us to consider at this time. 
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Lisa...always appreciate your visits.  Thank you.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Sally, I deeply appreciate the affirmation.  Thank you for stopping by to read and comment.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Amen...Fran, understanding what it means to be submitted to the Lordship of the Creator changes everything in the most incredible way.  Thanks for sharing your personal insight.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Thank you Rosario.  Mastery can be understood in many dimensions.  I enjoyed exploring a little of what it is becoming to me through this post.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Doug, Glad you stopped by to read. Thanks.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
I appreciate his insights too.  Thanks for your comment Bill & Barbara Jo.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Kathy...who is Kahil Gabrahn?  I confess complete ignorance. :)  Thanks for stopping by, I think you got the main gist of the post.  I didn't really intend it to be a deep post, but it apparently struck a deeper cord in many.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Joan, I love the phrase you use to describe your work: "I enjoy helping them find their way home."  That's a whole lot bigger purpose than simply helping someone to buy a home.  That is simply beautiful. :)
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago

Jane, if you ever come back to visit, give me a call. :)  I'm not CRC, so I guess the "kick-out" option is not viable there.  I am, however... a woman who has a deep commitment to her faith and relationship with Jesus.

Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Vanessa, Thanks for stopping by here to leave a comment.  Glad you're enjoying the series too.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 2 years ago
Awesome post, Lola.  A New Earth is an amazing book.  I am reading it now:-)
Posted by Debra Kukulski-CDPE;GRI;ABR;RECS;e-PRO Real Estate Expert Northern Illinois (Re/Max Unlimited Northwest) over 2 years ago

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