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The Art of Grace-Filled Giving...

 

curling ribbonThe frenzy of activity that marks the month of December is unmatched.  End of year parties and activities, gift buying, and holiday shopping can rapidly merge into an experience which is taxing and depleting emotionally, physically and financially. In our desire to give materially, we are unaware of the toll that we unconsciously exact on our spirits and our bodies

The truth is that wholesome giving cannot be primarily defined as a material activityalthough it may manifest in a physical material form such as money or gifts.  In its highest context, giving is a spiritual activity which can manifest in any number of forms for the intended recipient

A higher level of giving is demonstrated by being intentional and paradoxically grateful.  Gratitude is a characteristic which we often associate solely with the recipient of a gift and not with the donor.  But, I would suggest that intentional giving starts not simply with being thankful, but being humbly grateful.  Focusing on the privilege of being able to give changes the platform. 

To give is to be truly blessed.  To truly give to another's need or bliss requires that I focus my attention and intention on being grateful for the opportunity to bless another, to essentially empower another.  It also requires a humble gratitude for the gift of their presence in my life.  Thereby changing the equation for the "potential giver" from an elevated position to a recipient of grace.

Giving of this quality transforms the nature of what is given. All material forms have a predecessor in the unseen realm.  The Celebration of the Birth of Jesus at this time of year was a gift that was prophesied centuries before he arrived as a minute embryonic cell in Mary's womb and eventually manifested as a baby born to rule, but lying in the extremely modest environment of the manger. 

The intention of this gift was clearly the love of God for humankind.  The transformation afforded through the gift of Jesus Christ literally redeems life and provides reconnection to God through acceptance of His gift of life. 

Now that is radical, the Giver of life being so full of humility and love that He would humble himself to take on a physical body with all its weakness to ensure that through His death, we could live.  This is the spiritual nature and meaning of Christmas.

Giving of ones self is the highest form of giving particularly when it is done to enable the highest good of another.  The grace of this type of giving transforms a simple cup of cold water to the least amongst us to a gift which resounds in the heavens and impacts life far beyond the limited dimension of what we can readily see, measure or understand

**Portions of his blog post were initially posted almost exactly a year ago today. This was one of my first attempts at blogging. Recently, I went back to this post and was struck again by the message and how relevant it is for this time of the year.  This is an edited version of that early post.  If you'd like to read the complete post...you can visit my other blog. Merry Christmas!

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Lola Audu, CRS, GRI e-Pro ~ Audu Real Estate

Lola Audu, is the Designated Broker & Owner of Audu Real Estate.  Our company specializes in helping people buy and sell homes in the greater Grand Rapids, West Michigan area. You can contact us via e-mail @ info@auduhomes.com or by phone at 616-791-0511. Thanks for visiting our blog.  Here are links to some of our most popular posts for you to enjoy!

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Comments

"Giving of ones self is the highest form of giving particularly when it is done to enable the highest good of another"

Awesome Lola.... and THIS is what YOU have done from the minute you became an Active Rain member, until now.... what a GIFT, "you" are and what selfless impartation you have left unto us ALL just by being here!

Merry Christmas to you! 

Posted by Diane Rice, Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL over 4 years ago

Beautiful story and have to go back and finish your other blog story :)  Merry Merry Christmas Lola...and a very healthy, happy and prosperous 2008!

Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman, RA, CRS, HAWAII Real Estate & Relocations (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 4 years ago

Lola,

What a beautiful post, and you did most of this a year ago, wow.

Posted by Orange Co. Real Estate~Lynda Eisenmann, Broker-Owner,CRS,CDPE,GRI,SRES, Brea,CA (Preferred Home Brokers) over 4 years ago
Lola - This was beautifully written.  Thanks so much for this one.  Timely and lovely.
Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) over 4 years ago
Wonderful post, Merry Christmas to you Lola.
Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor-RealtorĀ® Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) over 4 years ago
I could read this over and over again and never get enough.  Thank you Lola, and Merry Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Posted by Kris Wales - Macomb County MI real estate blog & homes for sale search site (Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center) over 4 years ago

Diane, Thank you for your heartfelt comment.  I am so glad that our paths crossed through this unique medium.  You are an inspiration and encouragement for so many people.  Blessing for a Wonder-Filled Christmas and New Year.

Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
Hi Sally, Thank you for stopping by. Appreciate your comment.  Blessing to you and your family for the Christmas and New Year.  Or perhaps, it is more fitting for me to say...Aloha! :)
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
Lynda...it was re-inspiring to me too. :)  Apart from some spelling errors which I corrected, I really enjoyed re-visiting this post and I'm glad you enjoyed it too.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
Jason, Thank you for stopping by to read.  I appreciate the comment.  Best Wishes to you and your family during this Christmas and New Year
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
Hi Kris, Thank you for your heartfelt compliment.  I am grateful that this has touched your heart.  That is a gift to me.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago

Lola- Giving without expectation.....giving because we want to, not because we have to.  The Holidays can indeed be stressful trying to fulfill the expectations of others.........and any true give is given from the Heart, not the Pocketbook.....you said it so much better, but this is what I got from it:)

Merry Christmas Lola, and thanks for the gifts you have given me, all of us.

Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) over 4 years ago
Hi Missy, Thanks again for stopping by to read and comment on this post.  A very Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
You got it. :)  Thanks Kathy for your comment and visit.  Merry Christmas and a Success-Filled New Year to you.
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate over 4 years ago
Thanks for saying it in a way we can all understand.  Your blogs are always inspirational.
Posted by Marsha Cleaveland, GRI, AHWD, CNE (No longer in the sales business) over 4 years ago

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